I just spent 20 minutes watching a simple motivational speech by Mel Robbins. She is not related to Tony, but her message was straight forward. Changing your life to do what you want is simple (but not easy). Getting off your auto pilot is not easy, but you need to break from your habits to change your auto pilot course and truly achieve what you want.
So, get off your ass. Put a list together of things you want to achieve and make it happen without thinking our following your feelings. Forget feelings and do what you want or what you desire.